BY Apostle Dr. Olanrewaju Abiodun David.
Marriage and parenting are diving responsibility that require love, patience, and emotional stability. Many couples face struggles that threaten their relationship and well-being of their children. Challenges such as financial stress, emotional disconnection, poor communication, and lack of spiritual foundation often create tension in the home. However, through biblical wisdom and counseling, couple can restore their marriage, manage stress, and raise godly children.
In this article, we will explore the importance of emotional stability in marriage and parenting, using a real-life counseling scenario to illustrate how biblical principles can transform a struggle home
A REAL-LIFE CASE: Emmanuel and Joy’s Story
Emmanuel and joy had been married for 6 years and had two children. Their relationship was once filled with love and excitement, but as Emmanuel and Joy began to struggle, financial stress placed a heavy burden on their marriage.
The Conflict: Emmanuel became emotionally distant due to his struggles as provider. Joy, feeling neglected, withdraw emotionally and started spending more time away from home. Arguments became frequents, and both felt disconnected.
The Turning Point: They consider separation but decided to seek biblical counseling. Through counseling, they learned to pray together, communicate effectively, and trust God for provision.
The Outcome: their marriage was restored, and they became stronger together. Today, they mentor other couples facing similar struggles, using their testimony to encourage them.
This case highlights the impact of financial struggles, poor communication, and emotional disconnection on a marriage. However, with the right biblical approach, couples can find healing and restoration.
Key Lessons for Strengthening Marriage and Parenting
- Emotional Stability in Marriage
- Marriage is the foundation of the family, and emotional instability weakens this foundation. Stress, financial hardship, and unresolved conflicts can make marriage fragile.